In our last post, we looked at how Joseph was able to forgive his brothers even though their actions toward him were extremely hateful. Somewhere between being sold into slavery and ruling over Egypt, he learned how to forgive them. We’re focusing on that time between being harmed and being in power. Have you ever, after being wronged, fantasized about having the upper hand and getting revenge on your perpetrators? I might have done this once or twice myself.. Joseph could have done just that. He was second only to Pharaoh in Egypt. Aside from the king himself, his word was a command to everyone. He had the power to get revenge on all those who hurt him and anyone else in his way. That would have been the natural and normal response. Seriously, if I endured what Jospeh went through, I’m sure I would have spent years questioning God and thinking about revenge. What shifted for Joseph? What took place in his heart?
But Joseph said to them, “Do not fear, for am I in the place of God?
Genesis 50:19 ESV
Instead of wanting others to submit to his power, Joseph had obviously learned to submit to the power of God. He did not ignore, downplay, or excuse the wrong done towards him. However he was able to see God working, even in these horrendous circumstances. No, he did not let his brothers off the hook. He just recognized that God is in control. Although his body was imprisoned, Joseph submitted to God and experienced spiritual freedom. Joseph had been lifted up by Pharaoh, but he knew who the real King was.
Trauma often has a way of spiritually pinning us down and taking over our thought life. Depending on the type of pain you’ve experienced and your situation, you may or may not come into contact with those who have hurt you. In some situations, legal consequences are necessary and right. But if you have been hurt, that is sad enough. Don’t let the negativity have compound impacts by letting it rule your life.
Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”
Romans 12:17-19 ESV
It is normal to be angry when you’ve been wronged. Emotions are from God. But you won’t get free by stewing in anger. Admit that anger to Jesus and invite Him into your pain. He wants to bring His healing love into your heart! He wants you to be free.
Trust God. Seek Him. Be Affirmed in Christ.
Affirmed in Christ 