What does it mean to be a “good friend”? Is a good friend someone who picks up the tab or someone who picks up the phone?
Is friendship based on things or feelings?
Think of a friend of yours. Possibly one you’ve known for some time.
How have you treated them over the years? Have you been kind? Have you offended them? Have your words been gracious? Have you had a disagreement?
I would bet you have answered ‘yes’ to each question. I know that I can.
I am blessed to have friendships. Some have spanned decades and others are new friendships. I am certain I have celebrated with them and I have been a shoulder and an ear. And I am certain I have offended them and I have sought their forgiveness.
It is important to note that friendships, like any relationship, should have clear boundaries and should not be harmful in any way.
The Bible is a roadmap for us for daily living. As born-again believers we can trust the truth of God’s Word.
In His Word, God gives us clear examples of a true friend. Engage with the Lord on these scriptures:
The heartfelt counsel of a friend
Proverbs 27:9, ESV
is as sweet as perfume and incense.
As iron sharpens iron,
Proverbs 27:17, ESV
so a friend sharpens a friend.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.
Matthew 5:9, ESV
Today consider your friends and those who call you a friend. Begin to steer the foundation of your friendships to the heart.
In Christ, you can be a loving, encouraging, accountable, peace-making friend.
Trust God. Seek Him. Be Affirmed in Christ.
Affirmed in Christ 